FACT CHECK: PMW’s New TV Ad, “Schools” – OCT. 29, 2012

Assertion

NARRATOR: If gay marriage happens here, schools could teach that boys can marry boys.

Fact

The marriage equality law passed in Washington has nothing to do with curriculum taught in schools.  The text of the legislation can be found here – it makes no mention of schools or curriculum.


Assertion

DAVID PARKER: After Massachusetts redefined marriage, local schools taught it to children in second grade, including the school our son attended.

Fact

In 2004, gay and lesbian couples were granted the freedom to marry in Massachusetts as a result of a state Supreme Court decision. This decision had no effect on educational standards or other instructions to schools.

State educational policy on families was established five years earlier, long before marriage was legalized for same-sex couples in the state. In 1999, Massachusetts developed a new Comprehensive Health Curriculum Framework that read, “Students will gain knowledge about the significance of the family on individuals and society.” 

As the US Court of Appeals First District summarized: “In January 2005, when Jacob Parker (‘Jacob’) was in kindergarten, he brought home a ‘Diversity Book Bag.’ This included a picture book, 'Who's in a Family?', which depicted different families, including single-parent families, an extended family, interracial families, animal families, a family without children, and -- to the concern of the Parkers -- a family with two dads and a family with two moms. The book concludes by answering the question, ‘Who's in a family?’: ‘The people who love you the most!’ The book says nothing about marriage.”


Assertion

Courts ruled parents had no right to take their children out of class or to even be informed when this instruction was going to take place.

Fact

As a United States Court of Appeals ruled: “Massachusetts does have a statute that requires parents be given notice and the opportunity to exempt their children from curriculum which primarily involves human sexual education or human sexuality issues. Mass. Gen. Laws ch. 71, § 32A. The school system has declined to apply this statutory exemption to these plaintiffs on the basis that the materials do not primarily involve human sexual education or human sexuality issues.”

The Boston Globe reported that parents in the Parkers’ school did get notification: “Rachel Cortez, president of the school’s parent-teacher association, said … parents are given a chance to examine the books during a back-to-school night event early in the school year.”


Assertion

TONIA PARKER: If marriage is redefined in Washington, same sex marriage could be taught in local schools, just as it was in Massachusetts.

Don't make the same mistake and think that gay marriage won't affect you.

Fact

The marriage equality law passed in Washington has nothing to do with curriculum taught in schools.  As noted above, the curriculum taught in Massachusetts Public Schools was completely unrelated to the court’s decision to legalize same-sex marriage.


FACT CHECK: PMW BROCHURE, “DON’T REDEFINE MARRIAGE” – OCT. 25, 2012

Assertion

Referendum 74 will grant same-sex couples NO new rights whatsoever, but will instead redefine marriage for everyone.

Fact

While domestic partnerships are legal in Washington, states that have passed such laws have found them to be fundamentally unequal and harmful. [See herehere, and here.] As the Supreme Court of Connecticut wrote in 2008 when it struck down a statute that prohibited same-sex marriage, civil unions and marriage “are by no means ‘equal’.”

The court explained in its opinion: “Despite the truly laudable effort of the legislature in equalizing the legal rights afforded same sex and opposite sex couples, there is no doubt that civil unions enjoy a lesser status in our society than marriage.”


Assertion

We cannot stand by as activists conduct a social experiment that will be harmful to our children and grandchildren.

Fact

In 2010, sociologists Judith Stacey (New York University) and Tim Biblarz (University of Southern California) conducted a review of nearly every study on gay parenting. They found that “Current claims that children need both a mother and father are spurious… At this point no research supports the widely held conviction that the gender of parents matters for child well-being.”

Studies contending that children of same-sex parents fare worse than children of heterosexual couples have been widely criticized for employing faulty methodology.

The American Academy of Pediatrics “recognizes that a considerable body of professional literature provides evidence that children with parents who are homosexual can have the same advantages and the same expectations for health, adjustment, and development as can children whose parents are heterosexual.”

The National Association of Social Workers sa

 

id, “Legislation legitimizing second-parent adoptions in same-sex households should be supported. Legislation seeking to restrict foster care and adoption by gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender people should be vigorously opposed.”


Assertion

Marriage exists for the benefit of children.

Social science research and thousands of years of history show that children do best when raised by their married mom and dad.

Fact

In 2010, sociologists Judith Stacey (New York University) and Tim Biblarz (University of Southern California) conducted a review of nearly every study on gay parenting. They found that “Current claims that children need both a mother and father are spurious… At this point no research supports the widely held conviction that the gender of parents matters for child well-being.”

Studies contending children of same-sex parents fare worse than children of heterosexual couples have been widely criticized for employing faulty methodology.

The American Academy of Pediatrics “recognizes that a considerable body of professional literature provides evidence that children with parents who are homosexual can have the same advantages and the same expectations for health, adjustment, and development as can children whose parents are heterosexual.”

The National Association of Social Workers said, “Legislation legitimizing second-parent adoptions in same-sex households should be supported. Legislation seeking to restrict foster care and adoption by gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender people should be vigorously opposed.”


Assertion

Same-sex couples ALREADY enjoy all the same rights and benefits as married couples in Washington under the domestic partnerships, “Everything But Marriage,” law from 2009.

Fact

States that have passed civil unions have found that they’re fundamentally unequal and harmful. [See herehere, and here.] As the Supreme Court of Connecticut wrote in 2008 when it struck down a statute that prohibited same-sex marriage, civil unions and marriage “are by no means ‘equal.’”


Assertion

Same-sex couples are entitled to respect and to live as they choose, but they do not have the right to redefine marriage for all society.

Fact

R74 does not redefine marriage. It simply asks voters to affirm the bipartisan state law by approving the question, which would allow all loving couples to marry.


FACT CHECK: PMW Television Ad, “Examples” – OCT. 23, 2012

Assertion

NARRATOR: Experience shows how Referendum 74 can harm people who oppose gay marriage.

JIM & MARY O’REILLY: A lesbian couple sued us for not supporting their gay wedding because of our Christian beliefs. We had to pay $30,000 and can no longer host any weddings at our inn.

Fact

The issue here is not same-sex marriage but rather existing state laws that prohibit discrimination. For example, the manager of the Vermont inn cited the owners’ “personal feelings” as the reason why it refused to host the lesbian couple’s wedding. But the Vermont Fair Housing and Public Accommodations Act prohibits public accommodations – such as inns, restaurants and schools that serve the public – “from denying goods and services based on customers’ sexual orientation.” A summary of Washington State’s anti-discrimination law can be found here.

The Portland Press Herald deemed an anti-equality ad in Maine that used the same footage of the inn owners “mostly false,” calling it “misleading”.


Assertion

DAMIAN GODDARD: I was a national sportscaster in Canada.  When a sports agent spoke out in favor of traditional marriage, I sent a personal tweet that I agreed with him. The next day, I was fired.

NARRATOR: Don’t redefine marriage.  Reject R-74.

Fact

While the National Organization for Marriage claims Goddard was fired from his position at Toronto’s Rogers Sportsnet for his tweet regarding same-sex marriage, the company denied that assertion, noting the “well documented” reasons for his termination.  Goddard was not an employee, but “a freelance contractor” for Rogers Sportsnet.  And Canada’s National Post reported “Sportsnet had already made the decision to terminate Mr. Goddard for cause.”


MARRIAGE FACT CHECK: FRC Video, “How Same-sex Marriage Impacts Education” – OCT 22, 2012

Following is a fact check of a recent YouTube video by the Family Research Council called “How Same-sex Marriage Impacts Education,” which includes interviews with the Wirthlin and Parker families: 

Assertion

PERKINS: When you vote in this upcoming election, you’ll be voting on something that will affect every family in your state – the definition of marriage.

Hello, I’m Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council here in Washington, D.C.

How will same-sex marriage affect you? Well, if same-sex marriage becomes legal, then it must be taught as normal, acceptable, moral behavior in every public school.

That means public schools in your state will make teachers in every grade, even kindergarten and early elementary school, literally indoctrinate your children into accepting homosexual marriage as the very same as your marriage. Now, don’t think it can’t happen in your community. It’s already happened in Massachusetts.

Fact

A U.S. Court of Appeals decided: “On the facts, there is no viable claim of ‘indoctrination’ here.”

The independent fact-checking website PolitiFact called the school “indoctrination” myth perpetuated “false.”

A marriage equality opponent even admitted that the “indoctrination” myth is “not completely accurate” and “hyperbole.”  Marc Mutty, chairman of Maine’s Yes on 1 campaign, admitted during a strategy meeting: “We use a lot of hyperbole and I think that's always dangerous. … You know, we say things like ‘Teachers will be forced to (teach same-sex marriage in schools)!’ … Well, that's not a completely accurate statement and we all know it isn't, you know? … Let's look back at our ads and see what we say. … And I think we use hyperbole to the point where, you know, it's like ‘Geez!’”


Assertion

DAVID PARKER: The beginning of 2005, our son Jacob was going into kindergarten and he came home with a diversity book bag.  And in the diversity book bag was a book entitled “Who’s In A Family” by Robert Skutch, and that introduces children to same-sex households.

ROB WIRTHLIN: Back in March of this year,our son came home, Friday afternoon, and bounded in the front door and said, “Mom, Dad, guess what – our teacher read us the funniest book; it was so silly. It was about a prince who was getting married but he didn’t marry a princess, he married a prince.”

That afternoon, we sent the teacher an email message.  The teacher called back and said that, “Yes, it was a book about two princes who got married.”

“King and King” – it’s a story that introduces the idea of men having a romantic relationship and getting married.   We were shocked.

PERKINS: And your son is how old?

ROBIN WIRTHLIN: Seven years old and in second grade.

PERKINS: And they read this book to him?

ROBIN WIRTHLIN: Yes, in a formal classroom setting with his teacher as an authority figure presenting this concept as something that is good and right and the way things should be.

Fact

The book was not required reading.  According to a U.S. Court of Appeals, the children “were not forced to read the books.”

The incident did not occur “in March of this year” – the Wirthlins and the Parkers made their first court complaint back in April 2006.

Again, the Wirthlins’ son was in second grade in 2006, not earlier this year.

According to the Bay Area Bay Area Reporter, “Parents in the Lexington School District in Massachusetts disputed many of the Wirthlins’ claims to the [Reporter], pointing out that when the Wirthlins moved into the district they were already involved with two groups seeking to ban same-sex marriage.  One of those groups, MassResistance… has been called an ‘anti-gay hate group’ by the Southern Poverty Law Center. Lexington parents told the [Reporter]that they suspected the Wirthlins moved into the community following parent David Parker's very public fight with the district the year before, in order to become actively involved in the issue and to join Parker in filing a lawsuit to enforce parental rights… In fact, the Wirthlins moved into the district just weeks before filing suit with Parker.”

The Lexington School District superintendent made numerous attempts to accommodate the Wirthlins’ religious beliefs, but said he “came to the conclusion that they had no intent on settling.”

Two of Rob Wirthlin’s family members were high-ranking officials in the Mormon Church.  Rob Wirthlin’s uncle, Dick, was a political strategist for the church and his name appeared throughout an internal strategy memo related to same-sex marriage.  The Bay Area Reporter characterized the memo as “tangible proof that Mormon leaders had been working to prevent marriage equality in California and Hawaii at least for the last 11 years.”

The Wirthlins received financial support from proponents of Prop 8 in California.  According to campaign finance records filed with the California Secretary of State, the “Yes on 8” campaign paid Rob Wirthlin $768 for “Staff/Spouse Travel, Lodging And Meals” in November 2008.

 

 


Assertion

DAVID PARKER: After the diversity book bag came home, we realized that the intention of the administrators and teachers was to affirm these relationships and gay marriage in the minds of children. 

When we went into the school, what we’ve requested is parental notification when these issues are brought up by adults within the school and the option to opt our child out of this type of indoctrination. 

TONYA PARKER: And then she said, well, she had checked with the administrators and they had said that this was not a parental notification issue.

DAVID PARKER: One of the reasons they give is, they said, same-sex marriage is legal in Massachusetts.  Therefore we can broach it anytime with your child.

TONIA PARKER: So when she would not acknowledge our parental rights in this area, we then went to our Judeo-Christian beliefs and our faith and said, well, you wish to affirm homosexuality to our son – you’re presenting that which is sin as though it is not to our son.  And we cannot allow that.

Fact

The Boston Globe reported that the parents did get notification: “Rachel Cortez, president of the school’s   parent-teacher association, said … parents are given a chance to examine the books during a back-to-school night event early in the school year.”

The courts have ruled that parents’ rights to exercise their religious beliefs are not violated because of contrary ideas in school.  Federal District Court Judge Mark L. Wolf wrote in response to the Wirthlin and Parker lawsuit that schools are “entitled to teach anything that is reasonably related to the goals of preparing students to become engaged and productive citizens.”  A U.S. Court of Appeals affirmed that ruling, saying, “[P]ublic schools are not obliged to shield students from ideas which are potentially offensive to their parents.”  The Supreme Court refused to hear the case.


Assertion

DAVID PARKER: And I said, I’m prepared to sit here all night until I see some form of accommodation as a parent.  To make a long story short, the accommodation they gave was to put me in handcuffs and send me to jail. 

TONIA PARKER: I couldn’t believe that they were willing to arrest my husband because my husband and I just wanted parental notification. 

We want to raise our children to know God.  And God has blessed us with the sacred responsibility to raise them for him, to know him, and to know his truth. 

DAVID PARKER: And they were willing to handcuff a father and send him to jail.  It was a six by eight cell – filthy – but you know, I felt I didn’t have a choice at that point, in order to fulfill my roll and duty as a father.

So we filed a lawsuit.  Long story short, the district court said that they didn’t think we had a parental right to be notified in this.

Fact

Parker was arrested for trespassing because he refused to willingly leave school grounds. 

Again, the parents did get notification, according to Rachel Cortez, president of the school’s parent-teacher association.

Parker spent the night in jail only because he chose not to pay the $40 bail, ABC News reported


Assertion

TONIA PARKER: Federal court judge Mark Wolf ruled to dismiss our case.  Every citizen should take the time to go read his judgment. He spoke about this book Changing Minds, in which – to paraphrase – he said it’s the school’s job to change the minds of the young children that are indeed young and impressionable.

DAVID PARKER: So it’s translating directly into what the courts did on gay marriage and then teaching the children it’s OK – “And In fact, you could be gay too.”

Fact

Federal District Court Judge Mark L. Wolf wrote in response to the two couples’ lawsuit that schools are “entitled to teach anything that is reasonably related to the goals of preparing students to become engaged and productive citizens.”  A U.S. Court of Appeals agreed, ruling that, “[P]ublic schools are not obliged to shield students from ideas which are potentially offensive to their parents.”  The U.S. Supreme Court refused to hear the Parkers’ and Wirthlins’ case.

There are only two examples of Massachusetts parents issuing complaints about the materials taught in their children’s classrooms. Six years have passed, and Kris Mineau, executive director of the Massachusetts Family Institute, couldn’t cite incidents other than the two in Lexington when he was pressed to do so. He said, “I don’t have documentation of everything going on.”


Assertion

PERKINS: Do you see the implications of legalizing same-sex marriage?  It affects more than just a few homosexuals in your community.  It affects every family and every child.  

Every household with elementary school aged children will be forced to discuss homosexuality and same-sex marriage with their kids, even if they don’t want to.

And if your kids don’t learn to say nice things about homosexuality, then they may face being ostracized or even disciplined for politically incorrect attitudes.  This too has already happened in America as a result of legalization of same-sex marriage in a few states. 

So, before you cast your vote, know the full implications of legalizing same-sex marriage.  It changes everything. 

Visit this website [PreserveMarriageWashington.com] to find out more about how you can stand with others protecting marriage in your state. 

Fact

Perkins fails to provide any factual backup for this assertion.  Still, the most commonly citedexample of what Perkins appears to be referring to involved a student in Texas, where same-sex marriage is not legal.


Backholm Seattle Times OP-ED – OCT. 17, 2012

The following is a fact check of claims made by Preserve Marriage Washington’s Joseph Backholm in an op-ed that was recently published in the Seattle Times:

Assertion

“Referendum 74 is about the definitionof marriage. It’s not an issue of legal rights. In 2009, voters approved the 'Everything but Marriage' law which grants same-sex couples every right and benefit of marriage.”

 

Fact

While domestic partnerships are legal in Washington, states that have passed such laws have found them to be fundamentally unequal and harmful. [See herehere, and here.] As the Supreme Court of Connecticut wrote in 2008 when it struck down a statute that prohibited same-sex marriage, civil unions and marriage “are by no means ‘equal.’”  The court explained in its opinion: “Despite the truly laudable effort of the legislature in equalizing the legal rights afforded same sex and opposite sex couples, there is no doubt that civil unions enjoy a lesser status in our society than marriage.”


Assertion

“Kids do best when raised by their married mother and father.”

Fact

Backholm cites no actual research to substantiate this claim.  In fact, a wealth of research exists that finds the gender of parents has no impact on children’s wellbeing. In 2010, sociologists Judith Stacey (New York University) and Tim Biblarz (University of Southern California) conducted a review of nearly every study on gay parenting. They found that “Current claims that children need both a mother and father are spurious… At this point no research supports the widely held conviction that the gender of parents matters for child well-being.” Studies contending children of same-sex parents fare worse than children of heterosexual couples have been widely criticized for employing faulty methodology.

 


Assertion

“In Massachusetts, kids as young as second grade have been taught about same-sex marriage in class. When parents objected, courts ruled that they had no right to prior notice of the upcoming lesson, or to opt their children out it.”

Fact

The courts have ruled that parents’ rights to exercise their religious beliefs are not violated because of contrary ideas in school.  There are only two examples of Massachusetts parents issuing complaints about the materials taught in their children’s classrooms.

One of the children was given a “diversity book bag” that included the book, "Who's in a Family", which depicts a variety of non-traditional families, but the book was not required reading.  Another involved a child being read "King & King" in a second-grade class.

After two rulings that were favorable to the schools, the Supreme Court refused to hear the couples’ joint case.  Kris Mineau, executive director of the Massachusetts Family Institute, couldn’t cite incidents other than the two in Lexington when he was pressed to do so.  He said, “I don’t have documentation of everything going on.”


Assertion

“In Boston and Washington, D.C., jurisdictions where marriage has been redefined, religious groups like Catholic Charities had to choose between fulfilling their social mission based on their religious beliefs, or accepting this new definition of marriage. As a result, they had to close their adoption programs.”

Fact

Catholic charities in Massachusetts, Illinois and Washington, D.C. CHOSE to abandon adoption services--  instead of complying with non-discrimination laws currently on the books that apply to any organization receiving taxpayer dollars.

These conflicts arose over long-standing non-discrimination laws, which had nothing to do with same-sex marriage. The former chair of Catholic Charities in Boston disputes this claim, adding that eight board members resigned as a result of that decision.


Assertion

“Wedding professionals have been fined for refusing to participate in same-sex ceremonies. A few weeks ago, innkeepers in Vermont had to pay $30,000 because they declined to maketheir facilities available for same-sex weddings. …Doctors, lawyers,accountants and other licensed professionals risk their state licensures for acting in concert with their beliefs about marriage.”

Fact

The issue here is not same-sex marriage but rather existing state laws that prohibit discrimination. For example, the manager of the Vermont inn cited the owners’ “personal feelings” as the reason why it refused to host the lesbian couple’s wedding. But the Vermont Fair Housing and Public Accommodations Act prohibits public accommodations – such as inns, restaurants and schools that serve the public – “from denying goods and services based on customers’ sexual orientation.” A summary of Washington State’s anti-discrimination law can be found here.

Finally, this was no "mom and pop" operation. The owners have a business with annual revenues between $2.5-5 million and, like any business, were subject to public accommodations laws.  It's also important to note that the couple sought $1 and punitive damages, but ultimately agreed to more -- $20,000 for a charitable trust, with payments extended into 2015, and a $10,000 penalty paid to the state of Vermont.


Opposition claims “Business Does Best Where Marriage Is Not Redefined”– OCT 16, 2012

Assertion

"Rejecting Referendum 74 and the redefinition of marriage will not hurt Washington’s economy.  If anything, it will help the economy."

Fact

According to the Williams Institute, at the UCLA School of Law, about 9,500 same-sex couples would marry in Washington State within the first three years of the law, creating an $88 million boost to the state and local economy, with a $57 million boost the first year alone. In addition, the Institute concludes that those marriages would add $8 million in tax revenue to state and local coffers, with an additional $5 million in the first year. See the full study here.

Iowa and New York, two states that recently passed laws allowing the freedom to marry, have seen an immediate uptick in revenue as a result.  In the first year after Iowa legalized same-sex marriage, wedding arrangements and tourism generated $12 to $13 million in economic activity and nearly $1 million in tax revenue.  In the year following New York’s state passage of marriage equality, same-sex marriage generated $259 million in economic activity for New York City alone.

On October 15, 2012,The Wall Street Journal published a piece on its MarketWatch entitled, "Gay Marriage is a Shot of Adrenaline for the U.S. Economy."  The columnist notes, "…why not try something that brings families together and doesn't cost the tax payer a dime. In fact, it saves taxpayers money, as it is much cheaper for the IRS to process joint income tax statements than it is to process them individually…More jobs, more tax revenue, less money wasted on the IRS seems like a good deal to me." See the full article here.


Claims by opponents that they are subject to undue harassment and intimidation– Oct 15, 2012

WUM released the following marriagefactcheck.com on the repeated claims by opponents that they are subject to undue harassment and intimidation:

Assertion

Fact

Allegations Of A “Systematic” And “Coordinated” Intimidation Campaign Against Opponents Of Marriage for Same-Sex Couples Are Unsubstantiated – The Argument Itself Is A Political Tactic. The opposition’s claims that an intimidation campaign has been waged against them – a common refrain in political campaigns – are unfounded.

As noted in an amicus brief filed with the U.S. Supreme Court by lawyers for the nation’s leading LGBT rights organizations: “When subjecting a minority group to political attack, a common tactic is to claim that the minority is itself the aggressor from whom protection is required.”

Opponents of the freedom to marry point to allegations of intimidation tactics during the Proposition 8 battle in California as well as the Referendum 71 battle in Washington State – allegations that are not supported by the facts.

Some signers of the petition to put Prop 8 on the ballot in California claimed they were subjected to retaliation.  But, as noted in an amicus brief filed with the U.S. Supreme Court by lawyers for the nation’s leading LGBT rights organizations: “[T]here is not a single alleged incident of retaliation based on signing a petition opposing legal protections for same-sex couples.  The best Petitioners have been able to come up with is that a lesbian couple ‘glared’ at a woman signing their petition and tried (unsuccessfully) to lobby her not to sign by telling her that ‘[w]e have feelings too.’”
 
Opponents of same-sex marriage alleged that their supporters “became death threat targets,” “feared physical harm to self or family,” and had their property vandalized.  But as the lawyers wrote in the amicus brief, “[T]here is no basis for claiming that such incidents, if true, were pervasive or even common – much less part of a ‘well-coordinated’ campaign. … Second, such alleged instances were in large part directed at persons engaged in visible advocacy (or advocacy items, such as yard signs). While this is no excuse, the targeting of leaders and symbols is endemic tomany heated campaigns.”


Assertion

Fact

A Republican-Appointed U.S. District Judge In California Ruled That Prop 8 Supporters Had “Limited Evidence” That Violence Against Opponents Of Same-Sex Marriage Was Pervasive Or Even Related To Prop 8. U.S. District Judge Morrison England wrote in November 2011: “Plaintiffs have produced insufficient evidence that the more incendiary events on which they rely were connected to Proposition 8 or to gay marriage at all.

Rather, a number of these incidents were directed at the Mormon church, which, though a backer of California’s proposition, may also have been a target for any of a number of other reasons. … [W]hile Plaintiffs can point to a relatively few unsavory acts committed by extremists or criminals, these acts are so small in number, and in some instances their connection to plaintiffs’ supporters so attenuated, that they do not show a reasonable probability plaintiffs’ contributors will suffer the same fate.

Given the grand scale of plaintiffs’ campaign and the massive (and national) support they garnered for their cause, plaintiffs’ limited evidence is simply insufficient to support a finding that disclosure of contributors’ names will lead to threats, harassment or reprisals.”


Assertion

Fact

The Facts Show The Opposite To Be True – Incidents Of Increased Violence and Harassment Against Lesbians and Gay Men Have Been Associated With Ballot Initiatives Aimed At Preventing Marriage for Same-Sex Couples. According to the Los Angeles County Commission on Human Relations’ 2008 Hate Crime Report, numerous California counties reported increases in hate crimes during and immediately following the Proposition 8 campaign.

The report stated: “The public debate around Prop 8 triggered 9 anti-lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) crimes. Five of these crimes were acts of vandalism in which opponents of Prop 8 had their property targeted by homophobic (and in 1 case, anti-black) graffiti. In addition, there were 4 violent crimes.”

A similar increase in hate crimes occurred in Massachusetts in 2007, around the time of a Constitutional convention to discuss outlawing same-sex marriage.  According to Fenway Community Health’s Violence Recovery Program, “There were 105 total [hate crimes] reported for 2004 and nearly 1/3 of them occurred during February and March, months when same-sex marriage was the focus of intense debate and demonstrations on Beacon Hill. Several victims reported that their attackers specifically referenced the marriage fight or marriage rights.”


Assertion

Fact

Ballot Measures Aside, Gays And Lesbians Continue To Face Discrimination And Violence.  According to a 2011 National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs report, violent crimes committed against people based on sexual orientation (or perceived sexual orientation) or those who are HIV-positive increased by 13 percent from 2009 to 2010.  The homicide count increased from 22 to 27 – the second-highest total since 1996, when NCAV began following hate crimes.

1,706 of 9,601 reported hate crimes in 2008 were motivated by sexual orientation, an increase of 11 percent from the previous year, according to data collected by the FBI.  Nearly all of those hate crimes – 98 percent – were against gay men, lesbians, and bisexuals.


FACT CHECK: OPPONENTS’ FIRST TV AD – OCT. 11, 2012

Assertion

“Gays and Lesbians already have the same legal rights as married couples.”

Fact

While domestic partnerships are legal in Washington, states that have passed such laws have found them to be fundamentally unequal and harmful. [See herehere, and here.] As the Supreme Court of Connecticut wrote in 2008 when it struck down a statute that prohibited same-sex marriage, civil unions and marriage “are by no means ‘equal.’”

The court explained in its opinion: “Despite the truly laudable effort of the legislature in equalizing the legal rights afforded same sex and opposite sex couples, there is no doubt that civil unions enjoy a lesser status in our society than marriage.”


Assertion

Marriage “was created for the care and well-being of the next generation.”

Fact

Many households headed by same-sex couples in the U.S. are raising children. According to the U.S. Census, approximately 20 percent of same-sex couples are raising nearly 250,000 children.  Children being raised by loving, committed same-sex couples – like all children – deserve the protections that come from allowing their parents to marry.


Assertion

“When laws like 74 have occurred elsewhere, people who disagree have faced lawsuits, fines, and punishment.”

Fact

Seattle Times national investigation “failed to turn up any evidence that same-sex marriage had produced a rash of suits involving businesspeople.”  The newspaper “also checked with human rights commissions in four of the six states where marriage is legal; the commissions said there was not an increase in discrimination findings or suits involving same sex marriage.”


FACT CHECK: CATHOLIC BULLETIN – OCT. 10, 2012

Assertion

In Massachusetts, where same-sex marriage was legalized by the state’s highest court, students are taught about gay marriage in public school classrooms and the courts have ruled that parents have no right to prior notice, or to opt their children out of such instruction.

Fact

The courts have ruled that parents’ rights to exercise their religious beliefs are not violated because of contrary ideas in school.  There are only two examples of Massachusetts parents issuing complaints about the materials taught in their children’s classrooms.

One of the children was given a “diversity book bag” that included the book, Who's in a Family, which depicts a variety of non-traditional families, but the book was not required reading.  Another involved a child being read King & King in a second-grade class.

After two rulings that were favorable to the schools, the Supreme Court refused to hear the couples’ joint case.  Kris Mineau, executive director of the Massachusetts Family Institute, couldn’t cite incidents other than in Lexington when he was pressed to do so.  He said, “I don’t have documentation of everything going on.”


Assertion

Eighteen first-grade students in San Francisco took a school-sponsored field trip to attend the wedding of their teacher and her lesbian partner in October 2008. The school principal described it as a “teachable moment.”

Fact

The children were not forced to go on the field trip.  Parents of the children who participated were required to give their consent beforehand and could opt out if the trip violated their beliefs (two parents did).

  • The class that participated in this field trip was from a charter school, which is publicly funded but privately run, according to the Chronicle.

Assertion

In Vermont this summer, an innkeeper was forced to pay $30,000 to settle a lawsuit brought by two women for refusing to host the couple’s wedding reception. The inn no longer hosts weddings or receptions.

Fact

The issue here is not same-sex marriage but rather existing Vermont law that prohibits discrimination.  The manager of the Vermont inn cited the owners’ “personal feelings” as the reason why it refused to host the lesbian couple’s wedding.  But the Vermont Fair Housing and Public Accommodations Act prohibits public accommodations – such as inns, restaurants and schools that serve the public – “from denying goods and services based on customers’ sexual orientation.”


Assertion

In Canada, where same-sex marriage has been legalized, Roman Catholic sportscaster Damian Goddard was fired from his job for expressing support for traditional marriage.

Fact

While the National Organization for Marriage claims Goddard was fired from his position at Toronto’s Rogers SportsNet for his tweet regarding same-sex marriage, the company denied that assertion, noting the “well documented” reasons for his termination.  And as Equality Matters pointed out: “Goddard himself admitted that it was ‘absolutely’ possible that his tweet had nothing to do with his termination.”


Assertion

Accusations that it is “anti-gay” have been leveled at Chick-Fil-A, because its founder offered a personal statement supporting traditional marriage. Mayors in several major cities denounced the company for its “discriminatory views” and have a threatened to prevent the company from operating in their cities.

Fact

A handful of elected officials publicly denounced Chik-fil-A for Dan Cathy’s disparaging comments about same-sex marriage, but only two mayors said they would try to prevent the company from opening in their cities.  One of the mayors later clarified his position by saying that the city could not do anything to stop the company from opening up shop if it chose to do so. (A third mayor expressed disapproval but did not explicitly say he would work to keep the company out if it tried.)


Assertion

In August, a gunman entered the offices of the Family Research Council in Washington, D.C. with intent to kill staff members because the organization defends marriage as a union between a man and a woman. The Family Research Council has been branded by one same-sex marriage advocacy group as a “hate group” because of its support for traditional marriage.

Fact

The organization that designated the Family Research Council a “hate group” is the well-respected Southern Poverty Law Center, “a nonprofit civil rights organization dedicated to fighting hate and bigotry, and to seeking justice for the most vulnerable members of society.”  The group immediately condemned the act of violence against the FRC.


Assertion

 A Methodist organization in New Jersey lost its state tax exemption for refusing to make their facilities available to a same-sex couple for a civil union ceremony.

Fact

In 2007, a publicly subsidized boardwalk pavilion in Ocean Grove, NJ that happened to be owned by a Methodist organization lost its real estate tax-exempt status after refusing to allow two same-sex couples to have civil union ceremonies at the pavilion.

The State Division on Civil Rights opened a discrimination investigation against the organization and found, “It is clear that the pavilion is not open to all persons on an equal basis.”  A federal district court judge refused to stop the investigation after the organization claimed it violated its First Amendment rights because the United Methodist Church does not believe in civil unions.


Assertion

Forced to choose between their ministries and Catholic teaching, Catholic Charities in Boston and Washington D.C. closed their adoption agencies.

Fact

Instead of complying with non-discrimination laws currently on the books that apply to any organization receiving taxpayer dollars, Catholic charities in Massachusetts, Illinois and Washington D.C. CHOSE to abandon adoption services.

These conflicts arose over long-standing non-discrimination laws, which are unrelated to same-sex marriage. And in Massachusetts, the board chair of Catholic Charities and seven other board members resigned over the position forced on the agency by the bishops.


Assertion

In Canada, where same-sex marriage was being debated, Father Alphonse de Valk, a Basilian priest, was investigated by the Canadian Human Rights Commission for a ‘hate act’ after quoting extensively from the Bible, the Catechism of the Catholic Church and Pope John Paul II’s encyclicals to defend traditional marriage.

Fact

All reporting on this incident originates from religious publications so it is difficult to discern the facts.


Assertion

In Alberta, Canada, Bishop Fred Henry was subject to a human rights complaint for stating in a pastoral letter the position of the Catholic Church on same-sex marriage.

Fact

In his letter, Henry compared homosexuality to prostitution and pornography and argued that the government should use “coercive power” to stop them: “Since homosexuality, adultery, prostitution and pornography undermine the foundations of the family, the basis of society, then the State must use its coercive power to proscribe or curtail them in the interests of the common good.”

Numerous respected individuals and organizations denounced Henry’s letter – including the Toronto Star editorial board; Challenge the Church, a progressive Canadian Catholic group; and the Globe and Mail’s Michael Valpy.


Assertion

The California Legislature has passed a bill to legalize families of three or more parents.

Fact

The California bill, SB 1476, was designed to offer flexibility to families so that legal parenting can be extended to more than two qualified parties if it is deemed to be “required in the best interests of the child.”  It never became law because Governor Brown vetoed it.


CALL TO PASTORS’ VIDEO: OLD CLAIMS Vs REAL FACTS OCT. 5, 2012

The following is a fact check of claims made in the recently released Preserve Marriage Washington video, “Call to Pastors”

Assertion

Same-sex couples already have all the legal rights as married couples in Washington.

Fact

States that have passed civil unions have found that they’re fundamentally unequal and harmful. [See herehere, and here.] As the Supreme Court of Connecticut wrote in 2008 when it struck down a statute that prohibited same-sex marriage, civil unions and marriage “are by no means ‘equal.’”


Assertion

Social science research illustrated that children do better when raised by a married mom and dad.

Fact

A wealth of research exists that finds the gender of parents has no impact on children’s wellbeing. In 2010, sociologists Judith Stacey (New York University) and Tim Biblarz (University of Southern California) conducted a review of nearly every study on gay parenting. They found that “Current claims that children need both a mother and father are spurious… At this point no research supports the widely held conviction that the gender of parents matters for child well-being.” Studies contending children of same-sex parents fare worse than children of heterosexual couples have been widely criticized for employing faulty methodology.


Assertion

Referendum 74 redefines marriage for everyone in Washington.

Fact

R74 does not redefine civil marriage in any way. It simply allows gay and lesbian couples to marry under Washington law.


Assertion

Anyone who does not comply with the new definition of marriage will face legal consequences.

Fact

States that allow same-sex couples to marry have not experienced any discernible increase in either litigation or complaints. As the Seattle Times wrote in February 2012: “A search of newspaper clips failed to turn up any evidence that same-sex marriage had produced a rash of suits involving businesspeople. We also checked with human-rights commissions in four of the six states where same-sex marriage is legal; the commissions said there was not an increase in discrimination findings or suits involving same-sex marriage.”


Assertion

Catholic charities in Boston and Washington DC have had to choose between fulfilling their social mission or upholding their religious beliefs. As a result, they had to close their adoption programs.

Fact

Instead of complying with non-discrimination laws currently on the books that apply to any organization receiving taxpayer dollars, Catholic charities in Massachusetts, Illinois and Washington, D.C. CHOSE to abandon adoption services. These conflicts arose over long-standing non-discrimination laws, which had nothing to do with same-sex marriage.


Assertion

Redefining marriage will have irreversible consequences for our education system and the rights of parents to direct their own children’s upbringing.  Whenever schools educate children about marriage, public schools will have no choice but to teach this new, genderless institution. In Massachusetts, children as young as second grade have been taught about homosexual marriage in class. Courts have ruled that parents had no right to prior notice or to opt out their own children out of such instruction.

Fact

The courts have ruled that parents’ rights to exercise their religious beliefs are not violated because of contrary ideas in school. There are only two examples of Massachusetts parents issuing complaints about the materials taught in their children’s classrooms.

One of the children was given a “diversity book bag” that included the book, "Who's in a Family", which depicts a variety of non-traditional families, but the book was not required reading. Another involved a child being read "King & King" in a second-grade class. Both happened in one town, Lexington, MA.

After two rulings that were favorable to the schools, the Supreme Court refused to hear the couples’ joint case. Kris Mineau, executive director of the Massachusetts Family Institute, couldn’t cite incidents other than in Lexington when he was pressed to do so. He said, “I don’t have documentation of everything going on.”


Assertion

Business owners face consequences for expressing support for traditional marriage.  Wedding professionals have been fined for declining to participate in a sex-same ceremony.  An innkeeper in Vermont had to pay over $30,000 for not making his private property available for same-sex wedding receptions.  Doctors, lawyers, accountants, church-based counselors and other licensed professionals risk their state licenses if they act on their belief that marriage is between a man and a woman.

Fact

The issue here is not same-sex marriage but rather existing state laws that prohibit discrimination. For example, the manager of the Vermont inn cited the owners’ “personal feelings” as the reason why it refused to host the lesbian couple’s wedding. But the Vermont Fair Housing and Public Accommodations Act prohibits public accommodations – such as inns, restaurants and schools that serve the public – “from denying goods and services based on customers’ sexual orientation.” A summary of Washington State’s anti-discrimination law can be found here.


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